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Alpha and Beta People are alpha and beta not by birth or by choice. They become alpha or beta by necessity and inner voice. When people have a good leader and felt their voice is heard They are friendly, kind, dependent, and content like a bird. But if they sense danger with their mentality of a herd, They will stand in the front row with armor and a sword. Alpha switch to beta if the environment is conducive. Beta switch to alpha if the environment is provocative. Lead or submissive, active or passive is not fixed. It depends on the situation and people can be mixed.  

நட்பு தானே அமைவதா அல்லது தேடிக்கொள்வதா? நெஞ்சத்து நெகிழ்ச்சியில் நிகழ்வது நட்பு! கருத்தொருமிதத்தில் வருவதல்ல நட்பு, ஆத்ம ஒருமிதத்தில் வருவதே  நட்பு வாழ்க்கை நெளிவு வளைவுகளை தாண்டிய நெருக்கம் நட்பு வாழ்க்கை புதிரை வெற்றிகரமாக சமாளிக்க உதவும் திறன் நட்பு வாழ்க்கை கடலின் நம்பிக்கை படகு தகரும் போது கரை சேர்க்கும் கை நட்பு வாழ்க்கை நெடிது, கொடிது என்று உணரும் நிமிடங்களை இனிது, நொடித்தாக்குவது நட்பு ஆடி பாடி கூடி கலைவதல்ல நட்பு, தொலையும் போது வாடி, தேடி, நாடுவதே நட்பு! உயிரின் இறுதி நிமிடத்தை நிம்மதி ஆக்கும் நினைவு நட்பு அந்த நட்பு தானே அமைவதா அல்லது நாம் தேடிக்கொள்வதா? மாந்தர் தம் உள்ளத்தனையது உயர்வு மட்டுமல்ல, நட்பும் தான்

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xeswpdwv_10 The Thirsty Earth And the First Drop It has been months since the Earth tasted a drop of water. The rains are deferred and it is unusually dry and hotter. The leaves are wilting and saplings are dying. The greens are fading and with a little hope fighting. There comes the first drop as pure as mother’s milk. The thirsty Earth now drenched in life-giving drink. With each drop, every part of plant thanked in gratitude. And every thought of gratitude increased rain’s magnitude. Dirt is washed out and every bit of Earth started to sprout. When fulfillment is felt within, everything blooms in and out.

Acrostic poem – Judgement  J udging people’s life choices is one of the gravest mistakes we can make. U nderstanding others' decisions with our limited knowledge is not a cakewalk. D ifference in people’s choices and uniqueness is what makes our world great. G ood for us and others if we come out of the pattern before it is too late. E asy to judge, but hard to have empathy for the things people went through. M aking people vulnerable to criticism is the quality of weaker few. E lement of judgement may be coming from our own fear. N eed of inclusion and acceptance of dear and near is everyone’s desire. T earing down others is unethical, from which we should come out clear.

  Gore and violent movies are the futuristic movies! It is foolish to presume that It desensitizes young people. How much true the statement We will start fascinating them instead of avoiding. And even if we are exposed to extreme violence, It will cause phobia, stress and trauma. Realistic violence movies are just an entertainment. It is untrue and misleading that There is scientific evidence to prove. *********************************************************************** There is scientific evidence to prove It is untrue and misleading that Realistic violence movies are just an entertainment. It will cause phobia, stress and trauma. And even if we are exposed to extreme violence, We will start fascinating them instead of avoiding. How much true the statement It desensitizes young people. It is foolish to presume that Gore and violent movies are the futuristic movies

 

    Dismantling friction among women   The friction among women in family is more compared to men in family. Clueless men and children are silent sufferers witnessing the war of power. When we want to understand and change something, We should examine our own biases, assumptions and consider alternative perspectives.   Overdependence on men and imaginary competition   Friction among women is related to overdependence on men. Hostility between women is not inherent, but because of imaginary competition. Competition among women for attention, recognition, validation and power.   Understanding the rights and responsibilities   When right comes, responsibility comes with it. When women have right over education, responsibility of simple wedding is upon them. When women have right over employment, responsibility of spending and saving upon them. When women have marital rights, responsibility of marital duties upon them....

  When they reach teen, They won’t listen to you keen.   Don’t expect them to keep rooms clean, Neither complain their time on screen.   Every question to them is infringe. And for everything they will cringe.   Don’t expect them to follow strict rules, Let them chill and enjoy their schools.   Remember to be always short and sweet, Let them roam on street and spend on treat.   Always be at your best sense of humor, Don’t be shocked if they call you boomer.   Let them be on their own and decide alone. Don’t raise your tone as they are now grown.   Relax and let them figure what is vital. Believe as you are always their idol.

He walked in the path of pacifism And struggled against racism. With hardships and sacrifices he gone through, He believed all religions are equally true. With his hands on the handloom, He made our freedom dream bloom. With Gita in hand, feet in sand He gifted India cuff-free hand. With divine light in his heart, He feared only hardness of hearts. He dreamt of India undivided, But we are undivided only in hatred. Since he can love his inflictor greater, We gave him the title traitor.

 The Kaleidoscope Life Are emotions a perception of reality? Or Are emotions a reality of perception? Emotions are personalized. Sometimes it comes from outside – the reality. And we realize them as happy or sad. Sometimes it comes from inside – the perception. With perception-colored glass, we see them as happy or sad. The triggers will turn into twinkles if we realize  the triggering button we keep for others to press is a perception. The fears and insecurities, the irritation and resentment Are the wounds of life experience to be treated within. There is no yardstick to judge a person. Some of us can be drowned in a bathtub. Some of us can swim an ocean. The bathtub-drowning people can walk a long desert. Which the ocean-swimming people cannot. Unlearning life experiences and  Seeing through a colorless glass of beginner’s mindset, We can be as happy as a baby As a baby has not learnt to be unhappy yet.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPNM2uM58vc Turning Point Turning 40 is not just another day, It is a milestone, a midway, Where we get a clear picture of the path we travelled and the path before us. Nothing suddenly makes sense at age 40. It is the sum up of all the lessons we learnt so long. Around midlife, we will lose interest in getting attention, approval, chasing, wishing. We will just start to listen to our heart and mind. We will start to analyze what our minds have been fed all these years. Though there are miles to go before we sleep, It is just a milestone to sit and ponder how long we have come. A chance to rest, reset, and redirect ourselves if needed. At 40, It is the perfect time to celebrate and cheer. As we are clear and without fear, Let us restart our life again in first gear.