What does it take to be a mentally strong woman?

 




What does it take to be a mentally strong woman?


It takes a lot to be a mentally strong woman.

Though it does not require you to be in your battle dress at all times,

It requires you to stand on your own two feet and speak your heart against injustice!

It requires you to be selfless and to swallow all the depressing, harmful and negative remarks about you.

It requires you to accept the pain of betrayal from the people you are trying to help.

At the end of the day, it is nothing about others.  You are standing for your heart.


But for what to stand?

To stand for the truth and violation of rights which happens daily in plain sight.


For whom do we need to stand?

It requires you to stand for your mother-in-law against the wrath of your husband.

It requires you to stand for your sister-in-law against the wrath of your brother.

It requires you to stand for your daughter-in-law and daughter against the wrath of your son.

It requires you to stand against the people you are dependent on.


Though it looks like a terrible nightmare, relax, this is not a battlefield, and none of them are enemies here.  This is a family who will love you more if they understand your heart's truth.


Is there a man in the world who will hate his wife for supporting and loving his mother more than him?

Is there a man in the world who will hate his wife for supporting and loving his sister more than him?

Is there a brother or husband in the world who will hate his mother for supporting his sister or wife?

On the contrary, most of the problems will be solved if we come out of our baseless fear and talk about what we feel as injustice or wrong.


But it takes more than courage, it needs women to be mentally strong.

It is not about standing for women alone; it is standing for men too.


We need to stand for our son-in-law against our daughter.

We need to stand for our father-in-law against our mother-in-law.

We need to stand for our brother-in-law against our sister.


Are we women so weak that we can be easily satisfied by weekly outings, movies, shopping, good food at restaurants, dresses and gold jewels? We may be happy for a short term, but peace will not be with us lifelong. We will be full of regret and we cannot run anywhere from our heart’s questions.


Once we stand selfless for others and for the truth of our heart, withstanding our personal shortcomings, I assure you it is a positive addiction from which we can never come off.   We will sleep like a baby without any guiltiness in our heart and our heart will rejoice with fulfillment when we are at our deathbed.


Women, do not be afraid, your family will understand you. stand for others.


Close your eyes and your heart will tell whether it is a violation of other’s rights and if so, stand and speak.


If you speak for your father-in-law, your sister-in-law will be speaking for your father.

If you speak for your mother-in-law, your sister-in-law will be speaking for your mother.

If you speak for your daughter-in-law, your daughter’s mother-in-law will be speaking for her.


Instead of pretending we are blind to the truth in front, let us stand for the truth and let true love blossom everywhere and peace be with us.

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